No ke aha ʻoe e paʻi ʻole ai i ka ʻīlio

ʻO ka mea pōʻino, a hiki i kēia manawa, nui nā mea nona ka manaʻo ʻaʻole hiki ke noʻonoʻo ʻia me ka ʻole o ka hahau ʻana, hānai a hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i kahi ʻīlio. ʻO kēia kekahi o nā moʻolelo koʻikoʻi a weliweli, a e hoʻopau koke mākou i kona mana. Eia nō naʻe, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka poʻe (a he nūhou maikaʻi kēia) e manaʻoʻiʻo ʻaʻole pono e hahau ʻia nā ʻīlio. No ke aha i hiki ʻole ai ke hahau i kahi ʻīlio a pehea, i kēia hihia, e hoʻokō i ka ʻano i makemake ʻia mai ia?

Kiʻi: psychologytoday

No ke aha ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke paʻi i kahi ʻīlio, ʻoiai "ʻaʻole ia e ʻeha"? 

Nui nā kumu ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e pā i ka ʻīlio.

ʻO ka mea mua, ʻo ka hahau ʻana i kahi mea ola, nona ke ola a me ka maikaʻi e pili ana i ke kanaka, he hana ʻino wale nō.

ʻO ka lua, "ʻino" ka ʻīlio no ka mea ua aʻo ʻia ʻo ia i kēlā ʻano hana, ʻoiai ʻaʻole i ʻike ʻia (a ʻo ka mea pinepine ʻo ia ka mea nāna i hahau iā ia), a i ʻole i hana ʻia e ke ʻano no ia ʻano hana (ʻo ia hoʻi, he aha ia. kahaha! - e like me ka ʻīlio) a i hānai ʻia e ke kanaka (inā mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā ʻano ʻano ʻano ʻaʻole i noʻonoʻo ka mea nona ke kūʻai ʻana i kahi ʻīlio), a ʻaʻole i hoʻokō ʻia kāna mau pono kumu (ʻo ia hoʻi he "merit". ” o ke kanaka). No laila ʻaʻole kūpono ke kuʻi iā ia no ia mea.

ʻO ke kolu, ʻaʻole pono ka paʻi ʻana i ka ʻīlio. A makemake wau e noʻonoʻo hou i kēia.

Kiʻi: keepthetailwagging

No ke aha e hahau ai nā kānaka i nā ʻīlio a lawe mai i ka hopena i makemake ʻia?

ʻEhā kumu e hahau ai nā kānaka i nā ʻīlio:

1. Loaʻa ka manaʻo hoʻokuʻu i ke kanaka hahau i ka ʻīlio. Ua hoʻi mai ʻo ia i ka home ma hope o ka hana paʻakikī, a loaʻa iā ia ka ʻōlelo aʻo ʻana mai kona mau luna, a ma ka home - kekahi puddle a i ʻole nā ​​kāmaʻa gnawed. Ua hahau ʻo ia i ka ʻīlio - me he mea lā ua ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. ʻO ka pilikia, ʻo ia ʻano hiʻohiʻona he mea hoʻoikaika no ke kanaka, ʻo ia hoʻi, e hahau hou ʻo ia i ka ʻīlio. E aʻo anei ia i ka ʻīlio pehea e hana ai? Kanalua loa. Akā, ʻo ka makaʻu i ka mea nona a me ka hilinaʻi ʻole iā ia e aʻo.
2. Ho'āʻo ke kanaka e hoʻōki i ka hana ʻīlio makemake ʻole me ka hahau ʻana. Eia kekahi laʻana, ua ho'āʻo kahi'īlio eʻaihue i kahi'āpana sausage mai ka papaʻaina - paʻi ke kanaka iā ia, hāʻule ka'īlio i ka sausage a holo. ʻOhu ka ʻīlio - kuʻi ke kāne iā ia, hāʻule ʻo ia. Ua hoʻokō ʻia ka hopena? Me he mea lā ua pau ka hana. Akā i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole. ʻO ka mea ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻAʻole pili ka paʻi ʻana i ka hoʻoikaika ʻana o ka ʻīlio ma kekahi ʻanoa ʻaʻole lawa kona hemahema. ʻO ke ʻano kēia e ʻimi ka ʻīlio i nā ala ʻē aʻe - ʻaʻole ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e makemake nui ʻoe iā lākou. ʻAʻole paha e ʻaihue hou ka ʻīlio mai ka papaʻaina i mua o ka mea nona ka hale - akā he aha ka mea e pale ai iā ia e hana i kēia ke huli aʻe ʻo ia a i ʻole i loko o kahi lumi ʻē aʻe? Inā ʻeha ka ʻīlio mai ka hauʻoli nui ʻana, ʻaʻole e hoʻomaha ʻo ia i ka hahau ʻana, ʻo ia hoʻi, e ʻō hou ana ʻo ia, a i ʻole ka hoʻoulu ʻana i nā pilikia ʻē aʻe. Eia kekahi, ʻO ka hahau ʻana i ke kanaka ʻaʻole ia e aʻo i ka ʻīlio ʻokoʻae hoʻokō ʻia ka pono ma ke ʻano kūpono. 
3. ʻAʻole ʻike ka mea nona ka hiki ke launa pū me ka ʻīlio ma ke ʻano ʻokoʻa. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, i ko mākou mau makahiki o ka hiki ke ʻike, ʻike ʻia kēia he "kumu" hoʻohenehene, ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe. Eia ka manawa e hoʻomanaʻo ai i ka ʻōlelo "ʻO wai makemake - ʻimi i nā manawa kūpono, ʻaʻole makemake - kumu." A i kēia manawa ua ʻoi aku ka nui o nā manawa kūpono.
4. Makemake wale ka mea nāna e hahau i ka ʻīlio. Auwe, ʻaʻole kakaikahi kēia - he hoʻāʻo e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā ia iho i kona koʻikoʻi a me kona mana mana, hoʻopōʻino i kekahi mea ola, a i ʻole ka hoʻokō ʻana i nā manaʻo kaumaha. Akā ʻaʻohe mea e ʻōlelo ai ma aneʻi. ʻO ke ala ʻae wale nō e hoʻoponopono ai i kēia ma o nā kānāwai hana maʻamau e pale aku i nā holoholona, ​​e ʻike i kēlā poʻe a pāpā i ka mālama ʻana i nā ʻīlio. I ka wā ma hope o Soviet, i kēia manawa, ʻo kēia, ʻaʻole naʻe, he utopia.

ʻO ka hope, he mea weliweli ka hahau ʻana i nā ʻīlio. Wahi a nā hopena o ka noiʻi, ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o 25% o nā ʻīlio e pane koke i ka huhū o ka mea nona me ka huhū. Hōʻike mua nā ʻīlio ʻē aʻe i nā hōʻailona hoʻouna ʻaʻole ʻike ka hapa nui o nā mea nona, ʻo ia hoʻi ʻaʻohe koho o ka ʻīlio ma mua o ka pale ʻana iā ia iho, a ma muli o ka hopena, loaʻa iā mākou kahi ʻīlio e pōʻino i ka mea nona a me nā mea ʻē aʻe. I kekahi mau ʻīlio, ʻo ia mau ʻano hana e hana ai i ke kōkua ʻole i aʻo ʻia, a i kekahi manawa kūpono i nā mea nona, akā i kēia hihia, ʻike mau ka ʻīlio i ka pilikia, e pili ana i kona olakino a maikaʻi.

Kiʻi: pixabay

Aia kekahi mea ʻē aʻe? He aha kāu e hana ai inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke paʻi i ka ʻīlio?

ʻO ka hahau ʻīlio he hoʻoilina o nā ʻano hana hoʻonaʻauao ʻino i maʻamau (a ʻōlelo ʻia ʻo ia wale nō ka mea hiki) i ka hoʻomaka a me ka waena o ke kenekulia i hala. ʻO kēia mau ʻano hana he hopena pololei ia o ka mālama ʻana i nā ʻīlio e like me nā mīkini kaua, pono e hōʻike i ka hoʻolohe ʻole a me ka nele o ka hoʻolālā ʻana mai ka māhele o "Step left, step right - execution on the spot." A he hopena nō hoʻi o ka haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa o ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka psychology o ka ʻīlio a me nā ʻano o kāna ʻano.

Eia naʻe, ke aʻo ʻia nei ka hana ʻīlio mai nā kihi āpau, a i nā makahiki he ʻelua i hala aku nei ua aʻo hou mākou e pili ana i nā "hoaaloha maikaʻi" ma mua o nā millennia i hala. No laila, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā mea ʻē aʻe i nā ʻano hana hoʻomaʻamaʻa lokoino, a ʻo ke kuʻi ʻana i ka ʻīlio he koho loa. ʻO ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻana iā lākou he naʻaupō a hoʻopunipuni i nā holoholona.

ʻAʻohe mea hoʻopaʻapaʻa me ka mea nui e aʻo i ka ʻīlio i nā lula. Akā, pono ke hana me ke akamai. ʻO ke kūpaʻa a me ke kūlike, ka wānana a me ka ʻokoʻa i nā ʻāpana kūpono, a me ka hoʻolako ʻana i nā pono kumu o kahi hoaaloha ʻehā wāwae he mea nui loa.

Nui nā ʻano hana like ʻole no ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i ka ʻīlio a me ka hoʻololi ʻana i nā ʻano hana ʻino ʻole a hoʻokumu ʻia i ka hoʻoikaika maikaʻi.

E aʻo iā ʻoe iho a aʻo i ka ʻīlio, a ma kēia hihia, ʻo ke kamaʻilio ʻana me ia no nā makahiki he nui e lawe mai iā ʻoe i ka hauʻoli, ʻaʻole i uhi ʻia e ka hana ʻino ʻole.

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