Pehea e wean ai i ka ʻīlio e makaʻu ai i nā malihini a me nā kānaka ma ke alanui?
He nui nā mea hou e hopohopo nei e ulu aʻe kā lākou ʻīlio i mea ʻino a ʻino. Akā, poina loa ka poʻe e pili ana i ke kūlana kū'ē a emi ʻole ka pilikia - i ka wā e makaʻu ai ka ʻīlio i nā malihini, ʻāʻī iā lākou a hūnā. I ka hapanui o nā hihia, ʻo ia nā hopena o ka pilikanaka pono ʻole, pono e hana ʻia no kahi ʻīlio o kēlā me kēia ʻano a hiki i 3 mau mahina. A i ʻole he trauma noʻonoʻo i ka wā i hōʻeha ʻia ai ka pēpē.
E noʻonoʻo kākou pehea e wean ai i ka ʻīlio e makaʻu ai i nā kānaka.
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No ke aha e makaʻu ai ka ʻīlio i nā kānaka?
E noʻonoʻo i kahi kūlana maʻamau: hana ʻino ka ʻīlio i kāu mau hoaaloha a ʻohana paha e hāʻule ana no ke kīʻaha kī. No ke aha kēia hana?
Hoʻomaopopo ʻoe me kou manaʻo ʻaʻole makemake nā malihini iā ʻoe e hōʻeha, akā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke wehewehe i kēia i ka ʻīlio. Nona, he mau malihini ka poe o waho i komo mai i kona aina, no laila, pono e kipaku ia lakou ma ka uwau ana a oi aku ka hewa, ke nahu i ko lakou mau wawae.
Nui ka pilikia o ka ʻīlio. ʻO kēlā me kēia hālāwai me kahi malihini eʻikeʻia e ke kiaʻi wāwaeʻehā ma keʻano he hoʻouka kaua i nā palena pilikino a me ka maikaʻi o kaʻohana.
Ke hopohopo nei ka ʻīlio i kekahi lālā o kona ʻohana i loaʻa kekahi mau ʻano. Eia kekahi laʻana, he kiʻekiʻe kona kiʻekiʻe, he leo koʻikoʻi, he ʻala maikaʻi ʻole a i ʻole nā lole no kahi holoholona.
Hiki ke hoʻonui i ka manaʻo o ka pōʻino i ka wā e hoʻomaka ai nā mea nona ka manaʻo i ka wā e hiki mai ai nā malihini: hoʻomaka lākou e hoʻokiʻekiʻe i ko lākou leo i ka ʻīlio, huki i kāna kaula, a hoʻopaʻi iā ia. ʻAʻole ia he mea kupanaha no ka hoʻonaʻauao hou ʻole ʻana o ka ʻīlio, akā hoʻomau ka ʻike ʻana i kēlā me kēia malihini e hehi i ka paepae ma ke ʻano he ʻenemi.
E noʻonoʻo: pehea inā ʻoe ʻoe e hoʻonāukiuki i ka ʻīlio i ka hana ʻino? ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻomaikaʻi, hahau a kamaʻilio aloha me kahi ʻīlio hae: manaʻo paha ʻo ia ua ʻae ʻoe i kāna ʻano. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi e hoʻolohe i kā mākou mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a hana pono i nā mea āpau.
Pehea e hana ai ka mea nona?
ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka ʻae ʻole ʻana i nā malihini a me nā malihini ma ke alanui e ʻomi, e mālama i ka ʻīlio, e hoʻāʻo e pāʻani me ia, a ʻoi aku ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā kauoha iā ia. Inā ʻaʻole, lilo ka ʻīlio i kona mau palena: ʻo wai ka mea e hoʻolohe i ka hopena?
ʻO ka hana kūpono ke noho ka ʻīlio a nānā mālie i ka poʻe e hele mai e kipa iā ʻoe. Hāʻawi ka mea nona kēia hihia iā ia i ke kauoha "Nana" (ma kēia wahi aia paha kekahi huaʻōlelo kūpono no ke kūlana).
Inā ʻae ʻoe i kāu ʻīlio e puliki me nā mea a pau, hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i ʻīlio hilinaʻi loa. I ka wā e hiki mai ana, e hoʻolei ʻo ia iā ia iho i nā mea a pau me kāna "ʻapo" a ʻaʻole ʻike i ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o "kona" a me "nā malihini". He pilikia nui nō hoʻi kēia.
He mea nui e kau i kahi kaulike ma waena o "Makaʻu wau i nā mea a pau" a "Mahalo wau i nā mea āpau."
Nā ʻano no ke aʻo ʻana i ka ʻīlio i nā malihini
E hoʻomanawanui, hoʻomau a hoʻomau. ʻO ka hānai ʻana i kahi ʻīlio he mea kuleana a pono inā makemake ʻoe e noho me kahi pipi ʻano a hoʻolohe.
- E hōʻoia e maʻa koke kāu ʻīlio i nā kānaka.
Pono ka ʻīlio e hoʻomaka e ʻike i nā ʻohana a me nā kānaka ʻē aʻe ma mua o 3 mau mahina. Inā hala ʻoe i ka manawa, ʻike wale ka ʻīlio i ka mea nona, a hōʻole i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. He mea nui e aʻo i ka pēpē i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo ka mea lapaʻau a me ka mea hoʻomaʻamaʻa, no ka laʻana, ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e hōʻeha iā ia, akā ma ka mea ʻē aʻe, hiki iā lākou ke ʻoki i kona ʻōpū a mālama iā ia i kahi mea ʻono.
- E mālie
Inā hopohopo ka mea nāna, he aha ke ʻano kūpono o ka ʻīlio?
Ke haʻi ka ʻīlio i nā malihini, ʻaʻole loa e hōʻike i ka huhū a me ka huhū. E mālie a lokomaikaʻi. E hōʻike i ka ʻīlio ʻaʻohe hewa o ke kipa ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e mālama ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i ka mana, no laila pono ka ʻīlio e hahai i kāu hoʻohālike.
- E hana i kahi hui maikaʻi
He manaʻo pilina ko nā ʻīlio, ʻo ia hoʻi, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻokomo maʻalahi me kahi hui maikaʻi no ke kelepona hoʻokahi a kīkēkē paha i ka puka.
Eia kekahi laʻana, ke lohe ka ʻīlio i ka bele, makaʻu a hopohopo. E kōkua iā ia e hoʻopau i ka negativity - hāʻawi i kāu pipi i kahi meaʻai i ka wā e ʻike ai nā malihini iā lākou iho. A i ʻole e hōʻike i kāu ʻīlio i kāna mea pāʻani punahele āna e makemake ai e hoʻolimalima manawa me. E hoʻoneʻe ʻia ka mea pale wāwae ʻehā.
E hoʻomanaʻo: pono ʻoe e hāʻawi i kahi mea pāʻani a i ʻole kahi mea hoʻokipa e ʻike ʻole ai i ka ʻīlio, no ka laʻana, ma kahi lumi ʻē aʻe. A i ʻole, e hoʻoholo ka puaʻa e hiki i nā malihini ke lawe i kāna "ʻoluʻolu" a mālama lili i kāna waiwai.
- E kamaʻilio me nā malihini
ʻO ka manawa pinepine hiki i nā malihini ke hoʻonāukiuki i ka'īlio i ka huhū. ʻakaʻaka a kamaʻilio nui paha kekahi, hoʻāʻo kekahi e ʻomi i ka ʻīlio a kiola paha iā ia iho i loko o nā lima o ka mea nona. ʻO kēia mau mea a pau e hiki i ka ʻīlio ke ʻike he mea hoʻonāukiuki a hoʻouka.
E noi i nā malihini e haʻahaʻa a haʻahaʻa i ka holoholona i loko o ka hale.
- E pale i nā kānaka
Inā paʻakikī loa ka ʻīlio, pono ʻoe e hoʻokaʻawale i nā malihini mai ka ʻīlio. E mālama i kāu pipi ma kahi lumi kaʻawale a hiki i nā malihini. ʻO ka palekana o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ka mea nui.
Akā, e hana i nā mea a pau i ʻike ʻole ka ʻīlio i ka laka ʻana i loko o ka lumi ma ke ʻano he hoʻopaʻi. E waiho i kāna meaʻai a me ka wai, hāʻawi iā ia i nā mea pāʻani he nui. Ina he nui na ilio iloko o ka hale, e hele pu lakou me ko lakou kaikunane a e hoomalamalama iki i kona mehameha.
- Mai uhaki i nā palena pilikino o kāu ʻīlio
E ʻōlelo kākou ua holo ka ʻīlio i ke kani ʻana o ka bele puka a peʻe ma hope o ka sofa. E hana hewa nui ʻoe inā ʻoe e hoʻāʻo e huki ikaika i kahi holoholona mai kona wahi huna no ka leʻaleʻa o nā malihini.
ʻO ka mua, e hōʻino ʻoe i ka hilinaʻi o ka ʻīlio. E hoʻoholo ʻo ia ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hilinaʻi iā ʻoe i kahi kūlana paʻakikī. ʻO ka lua, ma ka huki ʻana i ka ʻīlio i waho a me ka uhaki ʻana i kona mau palena ponoʻī, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻomaha iā ia mai ka makaʻu, akā e hoʻohauʻoli nui iā ia. ʻO ke kolu, ʻo ka hoʻomaka ʻana he hana traumatic - e huki i ka ʻīlio mai kona "hale". ʻAʻole naʻe e ʻike ka mea nona ka liʻiliʻi.
Inā hūnā nā wāwae ʻehā - mai piʻi iā ia. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kāhea aloha, hāʻawi i kahi meaʻai ʻono. ʻAʻole hele? E waiho wale i kāu pipi. Ma hope, ʻike ʻo ia ʻaʻohe pilikia, a ʻo ia nō e hele i waho.
- E aʻo i nā ʻano hana like ʻole
Ua lawa nā hoʻomaʻamaʻa liʻiliʻi - a ma kahi o ka holo wikiwiki ʻana i ka ʻili o ka puka, e hele ka ʻīlio i kahi lumi ʻē aʻe, e lawe i kahi mea pāʻani ma kona mau niho a moe paha ma luna o kāna moena punahele. Aia iā ʻoe ke hoʻoholo pehea e hana ai kāu ʻīlio ke kani ka bele puka.
Mai poina i ka hoʻomaikaʻi lokomaikaʻi a, ʻoiaʻiʻo, mālama i ka wā e loaʻa pono ai ka ihu pulu.
- E hele pinepine ma na wahi lehulehu
Mai nā ʻāpana mehameha a me waho, e neʻe mālie i nā wahi ʻoi aku ka lehulehu. E hoʻomaopopo ka ʻīlio ʻaʻole mālama ka poʻe malihini iā ia a ʻaʻohe mea e hana ʻino iā ia.
I ka manawa like, mai hōʻino i kāu pipi, mai hōʻike i ka huhū iā ia. ʻO ke kūlana mālie o ka ʻīlio ke kī i ka holomua.
Inā makaʻu kāu ʻīlio ʻaʻole wale i nā malihini, akā no ka ʻāina ʻike ʻole, e hoʻomaka e lawe iā ia no ka hele wāwae, huakaʻi, pikiniki, etc. He mea nui ka hoʻomohala ʻana i nā ʻāina hou no kēlā me kēia ʻīlio. E ʻike ka makaʻu ʻaʻole kēia honua nui a ʻino, akā hoihoi loa a lehulehu.
Ma ka hana mālie, hoʻomanawanui a me ka mālie, hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻoia i ka pane mālie ʻana o ka ʻīlio i nā malihini ma ka hale a ma ke alanui.
Inā ua ho'āʻo ʻoe i nā ʻano hana āpau, akā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokō i ka makaʻu ʻīlio ma kekahi ʻano, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kelepona ʻana i kahi zoopsychologist. A inā ʻo ʻoe ka mea nona ka ʻīlio nui akā huhū, pono ʻoe e hoʻopili koke i kahi cynologist. Makemake mākou i ka holomua!