Hiki i ke keiki ke loaʻa ka ʻīlio?

Ke ʻike ʻia kahi ʻīlio i loko o ka hale, lilo ka ʻohana i mea aloha, a aʻo nā keiki i ke kuleana a me ka lokomaikaʻi. He manaʻo maʻamau ʻaʻole ʻoiaʻiʻo mau. E hana maoli ʻia kēia mau mea, akā ma ke ʻano wale nō e mākaukau nā ʻohana āpau no ka ʻike ʻana o ka holoholona, ​​​​e ʻike pono lākou i kā lākou kuleana.

Manaʻo ka poʻe psychologist e kiʻi i ʻīlio no nā keiki, a eia ke kumu.

ʻĪlio:

• aʻo i ke keiki i ke kuleana a me ke aʻo ʻana

• hoʻokomo i loko o ke keiki

• aʻo i ke aloha a me ka pilina

• hoʻomaikaʻi i nā keiki

• paipai i ka mālama pono

• hāʻawi i ke keiki i ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho

• kōkua i ke keiki e launa pū

• Paipai iā ʻoe e neʻe hou aʻe a alakaʻi i kahi ola olakino

• A ʻo ka ʻīlio ka hoaaloha maikaʻi loa!

Akā, aia nā pōʻino o ka lawe ʻana i ka ʻīlio.

• ʻOi aku ka paʻakikī o ka mālama ʻana i ka ʻīlio ma mua o kou manaʻo.

• ʻAʻole hiki i ke keiki ke lawe i ke kuleana o ka mālama ʻana i ka ʻīlio

• ʻAʻole hiki i ke keiki ke hoʻokō i ka ʻīlio

• ʻAʻole pili ke keiki a me ka ʻīlio

• Hiki i ka ʻīlio ke hanai wale i ke keiki.

Ma hope o ke aʻo ʻana i nā ʻōlelo hoʻopaʻapaʻa "no" a me "kūʻē", hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ke ʻano gula, a nā poʻe akamai e kamaʻilio nei. He aha ka manaʻo?

E hauʻoli nui ka ʻīlio i ka ʻohana inā mākaukau nā mea a pau no kona hōʻea ʻana, inā hiki i ke keiki ke lawe i kekahi mau kuleana mālama a inā koho pololei ʻia ka ʻohana. Eia ka ʻōlelo a nā alakaʻi manaʻo no ia mea:

• E kiʻi i kahi ʻīlio inā makemake maoli ʻoe a mākaukau no nā pilikia. E hoʻomanaʻo ʻaʻole he ʻīlio he mea pāʻani a he iʻa aquarium. Pono ʻo ia i ka hoʻonaʻauao, hoʻomaʻamaʻa, ka launa pū ʻana a koi i ka manawa nui. Koʻikoʻi ka ʻīlio.

• I ka loaʻa ʻana o ka ʻīlio no kahi keiki, pono nā mākua e hoʻomaopopo aia ke kuleana o kēia hoʻoholo ma mua o lākou a ʻo ka mālama nui o ka puaʻa ko lākou kuleana. ʻOiai inā ua lawa ke keiki i ka mālama ʻana i ka pipi, pono ʻo ia e alakaʻi a hoʻopaʻa ʻia.

• Pono nā mākua e wehewehe i ke keiki pehea a pehea e mālama ʻole ai i ka ʻīlio, a me ka mālama ʻana i kā lākou pilina.

• Na nā mākua e aʻo i ke keiki pehea e mālama ai i ka ʻīlio a hoʻokomo i loko ona i ke kuleana o ka holoholona.

• Mai nā mea i luna aʻe, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻomaka ʻana i kahi ʻīlio i ka wā o ke keiki ma kahi o 7 mau makahiki. I kēia makahiki, hiki iā ia ke aʻo i nā lula no ka mālama ʻana i kahi holoholona a lawe i kekahi o nā kuleana no ka mālama ʻana iā ia.

• Inā hele ke keiki i ka ʻīlio iā ia iho, ʻaʻole pono ke kaumaha o ka holoholona ma mua o kona ponoʻī. A i ʻole, ʻaʻole e mālama ke keiki i ka ʻīlio ma ke kaula!
• E koho akahele i ke ano o ka ilio, e a'o i ka nui o ka ike ma mua o ka lawe ana i ka ilio. Aia nā ʻīlio i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi me nā keiki ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe a maʻalahi hoʻi ka mālama ʻana. A aia kekahi mau mea hiki ʻole i nā mea hānai ʻīlio ʻike ke hoʻokō. E akahele a mai hoʻokaʻulua e kūkākūkā me nā poʻe akamai.

Hiki i ke keiki ke moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻīlio a noi aku i kona mau mākua no nā lā. Akā inā kānalua ʻoe i lalo, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e kiʻi i kahi ʻīlio!

Inā kaupaona ʻia nā pōmaikaʻi a pau, ʻaʻole makaʻu nā pilikia iā ʻoe a makemake ʻoe e kiʻi i kahi ʻīlio, mahalo mākou iā ʻoe! No nā mea kuleana, ʻo ka ʻīlio he lālā o ka ʻohana a he hoaaloha maikaʻi loa, ʻaʻole he kaumaha. A me ka makaʻu a me ka manaʻo ponoʻī o nā keiki, e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o nā psychologist. ʻOiaʻiʻo!