No ke aha i hoʻomaopopo ʻole ai nā pōpoki a me nā ʻīlio?

I ka manawa pinepine, ʻaʻole hauʻoli nā pōpoki a me nā ʻīlio. A ma muli o ko lākou ... "'ōlelo" i nā ʻōlelo like ʻole! No ke aha i hoʻomaopopo ʻole ai nā pōpoki a me nā ʻīlio?

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“Ka pale ʻōlelo”

ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua like loa nā ʻīlio a me nā pōpoki i nā hōʻailona ʻōlelo kino, akā ʻo ke ʻano o kēia mau hōʻailona i kekahi manawa ʻokoʻa. Ua like ia me nā huaʻōlelo a i ʻole nā ​​ʻano hana mai nā ʻōlelo like ʻole, no ka mea i kekahi manawa ke kuhi hewa ʻole ma waena o nā ʻelele o nā lāhui like ʻole.

He aha kēia mau hōʻailona e pale ai i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana o nā ʻīlio a me nā pōpoki?

1. Ua paʻa kiʻekiʻe ka huelo. I nā pōpoki, hōʻike kēia ʻano i ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho a me ke aloha - ʻo ia ke ʻano o ke aloha ʻana i nā hoaaloha. I nā ʻīlio, ʻo ka huelo i hāpai ʻia e hōʻike pinepine i ka hauʻoli a me ka haʻalulu, a i kekahi manawa he manaʻo koʻikoʻi.
2. wili huelo. ʻO kahi huelo wili i loko o kahi ʻīlio he hōʻailona o ka hauʻoli a hauʻoli paha, akā i loko o ka pōpoki he hōʻailona ia o ka huhū. ʻO kahi ʻīlio aloha aloha ʻaʻole maopopo i ke ʻano o ke kino o kahi pōpoki hiki ke kahaha nui i ka wā ʻaʻole hauʻoli loa ka puʻu huelo e kamaʻilio pū me ia.
3. Hoʻomoe ʻia nā pepeiao i hope a palahalaha paha. I loko o kahi ʻīlio, hiki i nā pepeiao palahalaha ke hōʻike i ke aloha, ka hoʻouna ʻana, ka makemake e hoʻomaha i ka "interlocutor" a i ʻole ka makaʻu - pono e noʻonoʻo ʻia nā hōʻailona kino ʻē aʻe. I loko o ka pōpoki, ʻo nā pepeiao i hoʻihoʻi ʻia he hōʻike ia o ka ʻeha, ka hopohopo a me ka mākaukau e pale a hoʻouka paha, a inā paʻi ʻia nā pepeiao o ka pōpoki, ʻo ia ka makaʻu a mākaukau e pale i kona ola.
4. Huli ka holoholona ma ka ʻaoʻao. I nā'īlio, he hōʻailona kēia o ka hoʻolauleʻa, ka makemake e hoʻopau i ka hoʻoweliweli a hoʻomaopopo i ka "interlocutor" ʻaʻole ia e hoʻoweliweli iā ia me kekahi mea. Akā inā huli ka pōpoki i ka ʻaoʻao, ʻo ia ka mea e mākaukau ana ʻo ia no ka hakakā a hoʻoweliweli, hoʻoweliweli i ka ʻenemi, e hoʻāʻo ana e ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o kona ʻano maoli.
5. Hāʻule ka holoholona ma kona kua. Inā hāʻule ka ʻīlio ma kona kua, he hōʻailona paha ia o ka hoʻouna ʻana a i ʻole ke kono e pāʻani. Hiki i ka pōpoki e moe ana ma kona kua ke maluhia loa (e hoʻomaha a kono paha e kamaʻilio), akā i kekahi manawa he hōʻailona kēia kūlana no ka mākaukau e pale iā ia iho (i hui pū ʻia me nā pepeiao palahalaha a me nā haumāna i hoʻopalahalaha ʻia).
6. Hoʻokiʻekiʻe ʻia me he mea lā i ka paw aloha. Inā hāpai ka ʻīlio i kona wāwae i luna a hoʻopā paha iā ʻoe, e kono ana paha ʻo ia iā ʻoe e pāʻani. Inā hāpai ka pōpoki i kona wāwae, he hōʻailona hoʻoweliweli paha kēia.
7. Kūlou ka holoholona i ka honua me ka palahalaha o kona mau pepeiao a me ka wili ʻana o kona huelo. Inā hana ka ʻīlio, kono ʻo ia iā ʻoe e pāʻani. Ma ka ʻōlelo a nā pōpoki, ʻo ia ʻano hana e hōʻike ana i ka makaʻu a i ʻole ka huhū a me ka makemake e hōʻike i ka huhū. 

Ma ke kiʻi: ʻaʻole maopopo ka ʻīlio a me ka pōpoki. Kiʻi: wikimedia.org

Hiki i nā pōpoki a me nā ʻīlio ke aʻo e hoʻomaopopo kekahi i kekahi?

Akā ʻaʻole pau ka manaʻolana o nā mea a pau. Hiki i ka pōpoki a me ka ʻīlio ke aʻo i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kekahi i kekahi, ʻo ia hoʻi, hiki iā lāua ke noho pū.

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Ua hana nā kānaka ʻepekema i kahi noiʻi (Feuerstein, Terkel, 2007) a ʻike ʻia inā hui kahi pipi a me kahi ʻīlio i ka wā kamaliʻi, a laila ma 77% o nā hihia he ʻīlio a ma 90% o nā hihia e wehewehe pololei nā pōpoki i nā hōʻailona ʻōlelo kino o kahi ʻelele o kekahi ʻano ʻano. ʻoiai inā kūʻē kēia mau hōʻailona i ko lākou iho. . ʻO ia hoʻi, hiki i nā pōpoki a me nā ʻīlio i ka wā kamaliʻi ke aʻo i ka "ʻōlelo haole" a aʻo e hoʻomaopopo kekahi i kekahi.

ʻOi aku ka paʻakikī no ka ʻīlio makua a me ka pōpoki ke aʻo e hoʻomaopopo i kahi lālā o kekahi ʻano ʻano, akā hiki nō hoʻi kēia inā loaʻa iā lākou ka manawa e hui maluhia ai, nānā a launa pū kekahi me kekahi.

A ʻo kāu hana, inā ua noho ka pōpoki a me ka ʻīlio i loko o kou hale, ʻo ia ke hana i nā kūlana kūpono no kēia.