He aha ka hana inā noi ke keiki i ʻīlio

Makemake ke keiki i ka ʻīlio a noi aku iā ia no kona lā hānau, Makahiki Hou a ma kahi lā maʻamau pū kekahi - kahi kūlana maʻamau? Akā, he mea ola ka ʻīlio a lilo ia i ʻāpana o ka ʻohana no nā makahiki e hiki mai ana. No laila, ʻo ka hana mua, ʻo ia ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i nā hoʻololi a kahi ʻīlio e lawe mai ai i kou ola a e hōʻoia i ka mākaukau ʻana o ka mea aloha ʻōpio e lawe i kekahi kuleana o kahi hoaaloha ʻehā wāwae. A ʻo - e ʻike inā pili maoli ka mea i ka makemake e kiʻi i kahi ʻīlio, ʻaʻole i ka nele o ka kamaʻilio ʻana a me ka makemake e loaʻa hou ka nānā.

Hoʻomanaʻo mau nā Veterinarians, nā mea manawaleʻa, nā cynologists i ke kumu hiki ʻole ke hāʻawi i nā ʻīlio i makana. Hoʻopuka kahi mea ola i nā manaʻo maikaʻi, e mae pinepine i ka wā e komo ai nā ʻīlio i ko lākou wā ʻōpio. He nui nā ʻīlio hele hewa i nā holoholona nona nā mea kuleana ʻole i luhi iā lākou a ʻaʻole manaʻo lākou he pono ke mālama i ko lākou hopena e hiki mai ana. I ka hihia maikaʻi loa, ke kali nei kēlā mau ʻīlio i kahi puʻuhonua a me nā mea hou, pono lākou e hana me ka trauma naʻau o kahi holoholona i ola i ka kumakaia o nā mea aloha no ka liʻiliʻi o hoʻokahi makahiki. 

He mea ola ka ʻīlio, ʻaʻole pono e hoʻomaka ʻia ma ka nalu o nā manaʻo, e hāʻule i ka hoʻohuli a manaʻo paha e kāhāhā.

Ke noi ke keiki i ʻīlio, e hoʻāʻo e hoʻohuli i ke kamaʻilio i kuleana no ka holoholona. E nīnau i nā nīnau: 

• Na wai e hele i ka ʻīlio?

• Ke hele mākou i ka hoʻomaha, ʻo wai ka mea nāna e mālama i ka holoholona? 

• ʻO wai ka mea e ʻauʻau i ka ʻīlio, e pulu i kona lauoho?

• Mākaukau ʻoe i kēlā me kēia lā no hoʻokahi hola e hele ai a hoʻokahi hola e pāʻani ai me ka ʻīlio?

Inā ʻaʻole i noʻonoʻo nui ke keiki e pili ana i nā kuleana o ka noho ʻana o kahi hoaaloha ʻehā i loko o ka hale, pono e hoʻopiʻi kēia mau nīnau iā ia a hoʻomaha iki i kona huhū.

ʻO ka mea maʻamau, noi nā keiki i kahi'īlio, me kaʻikeʻole e lilo ka'īlio i lālā piha o kaʻohana a noho i loko no nā makahiki he nui. Noho nā ʻīlio nui ma ka awelika 8 mau makahiki, liʻiliʻi - ma kahi o 15. Pono e wehewehe ʻia ke keiki ʻaʻole e lilo mau ka pipi i ka ʻīlio, e ulu aʻe ʻo ia a pono ʻo ia e mālama i nā manawa āpau o ke ola.

Inā noi ke keiki i pipi, e hoʻomanaʻo e hāʻule ka kuleana o ka liona no kahi hoaaloha ʻehā wāwae ma luna ou. ʻAʻole hiki ke koi ikaika mai kahi keikikāne a kaikamahine paha ʻehiku a ʻewalu mau makahiki o ka mālama holoholona piha.

I ka makemake e kiʻi i ka ʻīlio, he mea nui ke kumu. E ʻike i ke kumu e noi ai ke keiki i ka holoholona a me ke kumu o ka ʻīlio. He mea kōkua nui ke kūkākūkā ʻana i ka pilikia me ke keiki psychologist. Malia paha ʻaʻohe pili o ka ʻīlio. ʻO ia wale nō ka nele o ke keiki i ka manaʻo o nā mākua a i ʻole ʻaʻole ʻo ia e launa i nā hoaaloha ma waena o kāna mau hoa. Ma ke ʻano o kēia mau pilikia, no kahi keikikāne a kaikamahine paha, ʻo ka manaʻo o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi ʻīlio me he mauʻu maloʻo lā. I kēia hihia, ʻo ka wehewehe ʻana i ke ʻano o ka pilikia e hoʻopakele iā ʻoe a me ka manawa holoholona a me nā aʻalolo. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻike ʻia ʻo ka kamaʻilio ʻana me ka ʻīlio ʻaʻole ke ʻano o ke kākoʻo a me ke kamaʻilio ʻana i nele ke keiki.

No ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka hoihoi o ke keiki i ka pipi, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻonohonoho i kahi manawa hoʻāʻo nona. No ka laʻana, e noi iā ia e mālama i kahi ʻīlio pāʻani no ʻelua pule: e ala e hele, e hānai i ka manawa like, ke kāne kāne, heluhelu i nā palapala a i ʻole e nānā i nā wikiō e pili ana i ka hoʻonaʻauao kūpono, e aʻo i ka papa hana o ka lāʻau. Hiki i nā keiki mai 10 mau makahiki ke hoʻokō i ia kuleana. Akā inā ʻōpio ke keiki, hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi iā ia i nā ʻōlelo aʻo maʻalahi: no ka laʻana, e mālama i ka ʻīlio me kahi meaʻai.

Ke noi ke keiki i kahi ʻīlio, ʻaʻole maopopo ʻo ia e pili ana ke kamaʻilio me ia me kekahi mau manawa physiological maikaʻi ʻole. No nā mahina mua, hele ka ʻīlio i ka lua i nā wahi āna e makemake ai, a ʻo ka maʻa ʻana i nā diapers a me ka hele wāwae hiki ke lawe i ʻeono mahina. Ma ke alanui, hoihoi nā ʻīlio i ka ʻōpala, nā ʻōpala a nā ʻīlio ʻē aʻe a me nā mea ʻono ʻole loa. Hiki i ka ʻīlio ke ʻauʻau i ka lepo, ʻauʻau i loko o ka puddle. A i ka wā ua, hiki i ka ʻīlio ke honi ʻole. Pono ka mea nona ka ʻīlio e hana i kēia mau hiʻohiʻona i kēlā me kēia lā. Inā pilikia lākou i ke keiki a i ʻole ʻoe i kēia manawa, he manawa kēia e kūkākūkā hou ai i nā mea āpau. 

No ka hoʻomākaukau ʻana i ka hana ʻino o nā ʻīlio, hiki ke kamaʻilio pilikino me lākou. E kipa aku i kahi hale hoʻomalu holoholona, ​​e hele i kahi hōʻikeʻike, e hele wāwae i kāu ʻīlio hoa. E kipa i ka wahi hele wāwae, kahi hālāwai kuʻuna no nā mea hānai ʻīlio. E kipa i nā ʻohana he ʻīlio. E nīnau i nā mea nona nā ʻīlio akamai e pili ana i kā lākou mau kuleana mālama holoholona. I kekahi manawa ma kēia pae, ʻike nā keiki he mamao loa ko lākou mau moeʻuhane no ka noho ʻana me kahi ʻīlio. Inā haʻi pololei ke keiki ʻaʻole ʻo ia i manaʻo e hoʻomaʻemaʻe ma hope o ka holoholona, ​​​​pono ia he hōʻailona hoʻomaha i ke ʻano o ke ʻano o ka ʻīlio i loko o ka hale.

ʻO kahi mea nui ka hoʻopaʻi a me ke kūʻokoʻa o kahi keiki e moeʻuhane ana i kahi ʻīlio. Inā hana ʻia nā haʻawina me ka ʻole o ka hoʻomanaʻo ʻana, kōkua ke keiki a puni ka hale, hele i kahi moe i ka manawa, mālama pono i kāna mau mea, a laila no ke aha e ʻae ʻole ai iā ia e lawe i kekahi o nā kuleana o ka mālama ʻana i ka holoholona? Eia nō naʻe, inā he kolohe mau ka muli loa o ka ʻohana, haʻalele i nā hana a pau, ʻaʻole hōʻike i ka ikaika i ke aʻo ʻana, a laila e hana hewa ʻole kēlā kanaka i ka ʻīlio.

E kūkākūkā me ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa i ka makemake o ke keiki e loaʻa ka ʻīlio. He hoʻoholo koʻikoʻi kēia e pili ana i ke ʻano o ke ʻano o ka ʻohana a pau. Pono nā kānaka a pau e ʻae i kēia kumuhana. Inā he mau hakakā mau i loko o ka ʻohana, hiki i ke ʻano o kahi holoholona ke hoʻonui i ke kūlana. Pono mua ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i ka pilina me nā mea aloha.

Inā ua hoʻoholo mua ʻoe e kiʻi i kahi ʻīlio, a laila ma mua o ke koho ʻana i kahi ʻīlio, e kipa mua i kahi allergist - ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa. E mālama pono ʻaʻohe lālā o ka ʻohana maʻi i nā holoholona. Ua maikaʻi nā mea a pau? A laila neʻe mākou i ka helu aʻe.

Ma mua o kou lawe ʻana i ka ʻīlio i loko o ka hale, e heluhelu pū me kāu mau keiki i kekahi mau puke e pili ana i ka mālama ʻana i nā holoholona, ​​​​e heluhelu i nā ʻano i kapa ʻia a me ke kumu, a kamaʻilio me nā mea hānai. E kamaʻilio a hoʻomanaʻo i kekahi mau lula kumu no ka mālama ʻana i kahi ʻīlio:

• Pono ka ʻīlio i kahi wahi ʻoluʻolu ma ke kino a me ke kino e noho ai. ʻO ka ʻīlio pāʻani e hāʻule i kekahi mea a ʻono paha. Pono e wehe ʻia nā mea palupalu, ʻoi, weliweli, waiwai, kaumaha mai ka holoholona
• E hoʻolālā i nā lilo no: nā meaʻai no ka ʻīlio, nā huakaʻi i ke kauka lapaʻau, ka mea mālama ʻīlio a i ʻole ka loea hoʻoponopono ʻano, a me nā mea pāʻani, nā meaʻai, nā moena, nā kīʻaha a me nā mea pono ʻē aʻe. E ʻaelike me ka ʻohana pehea ʻoe e kōkua ai i ka pipi e hoʻololi i kahi hou. ʻO kahi hale hauʻoli hou a me nā mea aloha i nā lā mua e hoʻoluhi ʻia no kahi hoaaloha ʻehā wāwae. Pono ka pipi i ka manawa e hoʻololi ai i nā kūlana hou. ʻO ka manawa mua me kahi ʻīlio i nā manawa a pau e noho ai kekahi ma ka home. Hiki ke waiho wale iā ia ma mua no ʻelima a ʻumi mau minuke.

E noʻonoʻo i kahi āu e hele ai i ka ʻīlio. ʻO ka hele wāwae he 15 mau minuke i loko o ka ululāʻau asphalt he mea kūpono wale nō ia ma ke ʻano he hāʻule i hope inā nele ka manawa. Pono ka ʻīlio i kahi ākea ākea a i ʻole paka no ka hele wāwae.

• E noiʻi i ka ʻike meaʻai ʻīlio, e nīnau i kahi meaʻai meaʻai holoholona, ​​a koho i ka meaʻai ʻīlio maikaʻi loa. No nā lā he 10 mua i loko o ka hale, e hānai i kāu pipi e like me ka hānai ʻana o nā mea hānai a i ʻole nā ​​​​mea hana manawaleʻa ma ka hale. Pono e hoʻololi mālie ʻia nā meaʻai a pau.
• E noʻonoʻo i ka mea nāna e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka ʻīlio. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo e hoʻokō i kēia hana ma kāu iho, a i ʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i ke kōkua o nā loea. Pono e aʻo maoli ʻia ka ʻīlio i nā mea āpau: pane i kahi inoa kapakapa, moe ma kahi moe, hele ma kahi kokoke i kahi kaula, ʻaʻole ʻili i ka hale ...

Ke noi ke keiki i ka ʻīlio, pono ʻoe e makaʻala loa i ke koho ʻana i kahi ʻano. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka makemake i nā ʻīlio medium-sized. He mea paʻakikī i ke keiki ke mālama i kahi ʻīlio nui ma ke kaula i ka wā e hele ai, a he palupalu nā ʻīlio liʻiliʻi, hiki i ke keiki ke hōʻeha i ka pēpē i ka wā pāʻani a paʻakikī ke ʻike i ka mea i hana ʻia. Ma muli o ke ʻano, makemake ʻia e koho i kahi ʻīlio mālie.

• E ho'āʻo e puʻunaue koke i nā kuleana no ka mālama ʻana i kahi holoholona i waena o nā ʻohana. Pono nā lālā a pau o ka ʻohana e mālama i ka ʻīlio, no laila ke hele ʻole kekahi, hele i ka veterinarian, hele wāwae, hānai ʻana, ʻaʻole ia e lilo i hana unsolvable.

Ua ʻōlelo nui mākou e pili ana i nā kumu i kumu ʻole ai e kiʻi i kahi holoholona. Eia naʻe, inā hoʻoholo ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa i ke kuleana e kiʻi i kahi ʻīlio, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaikaʻi ʻia. Nui ka mana o nā ʻīlio i nā keiki: aʻo lākou i ke kuleana, kōkua i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā hoaaloha hou, hoʻoikaika i ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho. Me ka hiki ʻana mai o kahi ʻīlio i loko o ka hale, ua liʻiliʻi ka manawa o nā kāne ma nā hāmeʻa, neʻe hou aku, hele wāwae a pāʻani me kahi hoaaloha ʻehā wāwae. Ma waho aʻe, he pōmaikaʻi maoli ka ʻīlio. ʻO wai i waena o mākou i ka wā kamaliʻi ʻaʻole i moeʻuhane i kahi hoaaloha?

Inā kaupaona ʻia nā mea maikaʻi a pau a aia kahi ʻīlio i loko o ka ʻohana, e pono a hoihoi ia iā ʻoe ma ka webinar "". ʻO nā mea haʻiʻōlelo e ʻohana psychologist ʻo Ekaterina Sivanova, zoopsychologist Alla Ukhanova a me kahi makuahine kuleana e noʻonoʻo nei inā e kiʻi i kahi holoholona no nā keiki a ʻaʻole paha? No ka ʻimi ʻana i ke kumuhana e like me ka hiki a loaʻa nā pane i kāu mau nīnau, e kākau inoa ma