He aha ke ʻano o ka ʻīlio e kiʻi ai no ke keiki a pehea e kōkua ai iā lākou e hoʻolauna i mau hoaaloha?

ʻO ke koho ʻana i ka pua he pilikia mau. A inā he keiki kāu i loko o kou ʻohana, a laila pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i ka nui o nā nuances. Ua kūpono ka ʻīlio i nā keiki a me ʻoe i ke ʻano? E kūpono anei ia i ka nohona o kou ʻohana? Pehea ka paʻakikī o ka mālama holoholona a pehea ke aʻo ʻana?

He nui nā poʻe hoʻomaka i ka honua o ka hoʻoulu ʻana i nā ʻīlio i maopopo no ke keiki pono ʻoe e kūʻai i kahi ʻīlio liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi. Me he mea lā iā lākou he maʻalahi ke hoʻokō me kahi holoholona liʻiliʻi. Akā, ke koi aku nei mākou iā ʻoe ʻaʻole e alakaʻi ʻia e ka nui o ka ʻīlio. ʻAʻole kūpono nā ʻano liʻiliʻi he nui no nā keiki. ʻO kahi laʻana, ʻo ka Chihuahua ka manaʻo a me ka maʻalahi. ʻO nā pāʻani keiki walaʻau e hoʻokau iā ia i loko o ka weliweli maoli. Eia kekahi, hiki i ke keiki ke hōʻeha i kahi holoholona palupalu ma muli o ka mālama ʻole. ʻAʻole kōkua kēia mau mea i kahi pilina ikaika. 

ʻO kekahi mea ʻo Labrador Retrievers a me Golden Retrievers. Me he mea lā he nui nā ʻano, hiki i ke keiki ke hoʻokō? Akā, hānau ʻia kēia mau ʻīlio he kahu hānai. He lokomaikaʻi lākou, mālie a hoʻomanawanui loa. ʻAʻole ʻoe e hoʻoweliweli iā lākou me nā pūliki aloha. E hoʻomanawanui lākou i nā hōʻike a pau o ke aloha kamaliʻi clumsy. ʻOiaʻiʻo, inā ua hoʻonaʻauao maikaʻiʻia ka'īlio a me ka pilikanaka.

Ke koho ʻana i kahi ʻīlio no kahi keiki, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka nānā ʻana ʻaʻole i ka nui a me ka ʻikepili o waho, akā i ke ʻano. ʻOi aku ka mālie a me ka pili ʻana i ka ʻīlio, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ke keiki e launa pū me ia.

Kapa ʻia kekahi mau ʻīlio "nā ʻīlio hānai". Akā ʻaʻole pono e lawe maoli ʻia kēia ʻōlelo. ʻAʻole i hānau ʻia kahi ʻīlio hoʻokahi "nanny" kūpono ma ke ʻano a ʻaʻole ʻike i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me nā keiki "ma ka ʻoihana". ʻAʻole hōʻoia ka ʻīlio i kekahi ʻano o ka ʻīlio - hoʻoholo ia i ka propensity.

ʻO ka hana a kāu ʻīlio me kahi keiki ʻaʻole pili wale i kāna ʻano, akā i kāu hoʻoikaika ʻana i ka hoʻonaʻauao a me ka pilikanaka.

Eia nō naʻe, aia kekahi mau ʻano i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke keiki ma mua o ko lākou mau hoa. Eia 7 o lakou. E hoʻomaopopo. 

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E nīnau i ka mea hele ma ke ʻano o ka ʻīlio kūpono no ke keiki. ʻO ka mea nui loa, e pane ʻo ia he Labrador a i ʻole Retriever. A pono ʻo ia!

ʻO Labradors a me nā mea hoʻihoʻi gula ʻaʻole wale nā ​​hoaaloha maikaʻi loa o nā keiki, akā ʻo nā psychologists maoli a me nā mea ho'ōla. Pili kēia mau ʻīlio i ka lāʻau lapaʻau ma ka honua holoʻokoʻa. Kōkua lākou i nā keiki me ke kino kīnā, hoʻopōkole i ka manawa hoʻoponopono ma hope o nā ʻeha a me nā maʻi koʻikoʻi, a lilo i mau alakaʻi a me nā kahu hānai.

Ua mākaukau kēia mau ʻīlio e hāʻawi i ke kanaka i ko lākou poʻohiwi ikaika a hāʻawi i ko lākou aloha a pau iā ia. E nānā pono iā lākou!

ʻIke ko mākou hanauna i kēia ʻīlio mai ka pāʻoihana kaulana "Chappie". Hoʻomanaʻo i kēia? ʻO kēlā mau maka maka a me ka hulu ahi! Haʻaheo koke ʻoe i kēlā ʻano holoholona!

Akā ʻaʻole nani wale ka Irish Setter i ka helehelena. He ʻīlio maikaʻi ʻole kēia, ʻoluʻolu, pane, ʻoliʻoli e mālama mau iā ʻoe i nā pāʻani a hōʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe i ka lā ua. Inā he mea hoʻonohonoho i loko o kou ʻohana, ʻaʻole paha ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo hou i ka luhi!

He kahu hipa kēia mau ʻīlio. ʻAʻole like me nā mea ʻē aʻe, ʻike lākou i ka nānā ʻana i kā lākou mau papa a hoʻonohonoho i nā mea i nā pāʻina walaʻau!

Akā ʻo ka mea nui loa, ʻo ka collie he ʻīlio maikaʻi loa, kaulike ʻole i nele i ka huhū. Me ka hānai pono ʻana, ulu aʻe nā collies e lilo i mea hoʻolohe, ʻoiaʻiʻo a hauʻoli hoʻi, he "poʻe maikaʻi" maoli, he mea ʻoluʻolu loa e puni.

ʻIke pololei kēia mau pilikua nani i ka ʻimi ʻana i kahi hoʻokokoke i ka puʻuwai o kahi keiki! E nānā wale i ka ʻīlio mauna - makemake koke ʻoe e hoaaloha me ia! ʻAʻole pili inā he 13 a 30 paha ʻoe.

He ʻīlio akamai loa ʻo Sennenhunds. Aʻo maʻalahi lākou i nā kauoha, kaʻana like i nā leʻaleʻa haʻuki o kā lākou mau mea nona, a makemake i ka huakaʻi. A, ʻoiaʻiʻo hoʻi, no ka kiki ʻana i ke kinipōpō me nā keiki!

ʻOiai kona nui, kūpono kēia ʻīlio no ka mālama hale. A nani ʻo ia!

Mai hoʻopunipuni nā maka kaumaha o kēia hana mana iā ʻoe! ʻAʻole ʻo Basset Hounds he melancholics hope ʻole, akā he ʻīlio ʻoliʻoli, akahai a aloha.

ʻAʻole hiki ke noʻonoʻo i kahi basset e hōʻeha i kahi keiki. E ola ana kēia mau puaʻa inā ʻo ka pūʻulu o nā keiki e lele ma luna o lākou me ko lākou mau lima. A hauʻoli hoʻi!

He ʻano ʻano mālie, ʻoluʻolu a me ke aloha ma ka laulā. Hoʻolohe a hoʻokō pono nā Bassets. ʻAʻole lākou e kau ʻia a koi i ka nānā mau. He mau holoholona maikaʻi kēia no ka ʻohana mālie.

Ua ʻike paha ʻoe ua kapa ʻia ʻo corgis he lio elf? Aia kahi moʻolelo Celtic nani e pili ana i ke kumu o kēia ʻano. Ua ʻōlelo ʻia, i ka wā kahiko, noho nā corgis me nā elves a hāpai iā lākou ma ko lākou kua, e like me nā lio. I ka manawa i hana ai nā elves i mau hoaaloha me nā keiki a ke kahu hipa - a ma keʻano he hōʻailona o ko lākou hoaaloha ua hāʻawi lākou iā lākou iʻelua mau "lio". Mai ia manawa mai, ua noho nā corgis i waena o mākou!

He moʻolelo ka moʻolelo, akā he ʻīlio kūʻokoʻa maoli nā corgis. E nānā wale i ko lākou helehelena ʻike ʻole: he waha ʻakaʻaka, he huelo maʻemaʻe a me nā wāwae ʻakaʻaka ... Aia kekahi mea kupanaha i loko o lākou! Manaʻo nā keiki a huki nui iā lākou!

ʻO ka mea nui e ʻike e pili ana i kēia ʻīlio, ʻaʻole ia e luhi!

Inā he mea hoʻokalakupua kāu keiki e makemake e hoʻolimalima manawa me kahi puke, e pale aku iā Jack Russell Terriers. ʻOiaʻiʻo!

Akā inā ʻo kāu keiki kekahi o ka poʻe i noho mālie no hoʻokahi minuke, he paʻakikī ke noʻonoʻo i kahi pipi kūpono iā ia ma mua o ka jack. E lanakila pū lākou i ka honua - paʻa wale!

Aia nā ʻano ʻano ʻē aʻe i kūpono no nā keiki. ʻO kēia, no ka laʻana, beagles, St. Bernards, Newfoundlands, poodles. E lawe i kou manawa me ka koho, e kamaʻilio me nā mea hānai a me nā mea nona nā ʻīlio o ka ʻano āu e makemake ai, e kaupaona i nā pono āpau a me nā pōʻino. I kēia hihia, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i nā manawa he nui.

Pīhoihoi ka hapa nui o nā mākua i ka nīnau: pehea e pale ai i kahi keiki mai kahi ʻīlio? Akā pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i ʻelua ʻaoʻao. ʻO kāu hana ka pale ʻana i ke keiki a me ka ʻīlio. Pīhoihoi paha ʻoe i ka nui o nā ʻīlio a me nā ʻīlio liʻiliʻi e loaʻa i nā hana palaualelo a nā keiki. A make lākou i kekahi manawa.

Pono ʻoe e hoʻonohonoho pono i nā palena ma waena o ka pipi a me ke keiki - a ʻaʻole e waiho wale iā lākou me ka mālama ʻole ʻia. He mea nui ka hoʻonaʻauao ʻana ʻaʻole wale i ka ʻīlio, akā i nā keiki pū kekahi: e wehewehe pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe a pehea e hiki ʻole ai iā ʻoe ke hana me kahi pipi. Hāʻawi i ke keiki i kāna kuleana, hiki iā ia ke mālama, a lawe i nā kaʻina hana paʻakikī.

I loko o ka hale, pono i kēlā me kēia ʻīlio i kona wahi ponoʻī kahi e hoʻomaha ai a hoʻomaha i kēlā me kēia manawa. ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻopilikia i ka ʻīlio i kēia manawa ke ʻole pono loa. No ke keiki, e lilo keia i rula hao. Eia kekahi laʻana: "Mai hoʻopā iā Roy i kona wā e moe ana ma luna o kona wahi moe." ʻOiai inā makemake ʻoe e pāʻani kinipōpō me ia!

Hiki iā ʻoe ke kāhea i kahi holoholona, ​​​​hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike iā ia i ka pōleʻa i mea e hoʻokomo iā ia i ka pāʻani, akā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke uhaki i kona wahi pilikino ke ʻole pono.

• Pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi ʻīlio no nā keiki, a laila e kau mau ke kuleana a pau iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole kūpono ke nīnau i kahi keiki: "Ua hoʻohiki ʻoe e hele, hānai, hoʻomaʻemaʻe?" ʻO kahi keiki e moeʻuhane ana i kahi ʻīlio e hoʻohiki iā ʻoe i kekahi mea. Akā i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa, ʻoi aku paha, e hoʻololi koke lākou i kēia mau kuleana iā ʻoe.

Life hack: ma mua o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi ʻīlio, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻonohonoho i kahi "manawa hoʻāʻo" no kāu keiki. E kono iā ia e mālama i kahi ʻīlio pāʻani no ka manawa lōʻihi. ʻO ka pahuhopu ka hōʻike ʻana ʻaʻole he mea pāʻani ka ʻīlio a he manawa a hoʻoikaika.

• Ke lawe ʻoe i ka ʻīlio i loko o ka hale, e wehewehe hou i ke keiki he mea ola kēia a ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomāinoino iā ia. He mea nui kēia e ʻōlelo me nā keiki ʻōpio loa.
• ʻO ka mea nui i loko o ka hale ka poʻe. ʻOi aku ka kiʻekiʻe o kahi keiki liʻiliʻi i ke kūlana ma ka hierarchy ma mua o ka ʻīlio, ʻoiai inā he 5 mau manawa ke kaumaha. Pono ka ʻīlio e aʻo i kēia mai ka wā kamaliʻi, inā ʻaʻole i ka wā e hiki mai ana e uwē ʻo ia i ke keiki a hōʻike i ka hoʻolohe ʻole.

Pehea e hoʻokō ai i kēia? He maʻalahi nā lula. Ke aʻo aku nei mākou i nā hui (hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka e like me 2 mau mahina), hoʻonohonoho i nā palena: kahi hiki iā ʻoe ke hele, kahi hiki ʻole iā ʻoe, ka mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana a me ka mea hiki ʻole, hoʻōki i ka hana makemake ʻole a me ka uku no nā hana kūpono, mai waiho wale i ka ilio a me ke keiki me ka malama ole.

• He mea nui ke kūpaʻa i ka mālama ʻana i ka ʻīlio. Inā ua hana ʻoe i nā lula, pono ʻoe e hahai iā lākou i nā manawa a pau. No ka laʻana, inā hoʻoholo ʻoe ʻaʻole e lawe i kāu ʻīlio i kahi moe, mai ʻae iā ia e lele i luna ou, ʻoiai i nā lā hoʻomaha. Inā ʻaʻole, e hoʻokaʻawale ka pēpē a ʻaʻole maopopo i ka mea i manaʻo ʻia iā ia.

Inā uhaki mau nā mea nona nā lula a hāʻawi i ka ʻoluʻolu o ka puaʻa, hoʻopau ʻo ia i ka lawe nui ʻana i nā kauoha a me nā pāpā.

• I nā lā mua ma hope o ka neʻe ʻana i kahi home hou, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka lawe ʻole ʻana i kou manaʻo āpau i ka ʻīlio. Pono ka pēpē i manawa no ka hoʻololi mālie - a pono e wehewehe i kēia i nā keiki. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomāinoino ikaika i ka ʻīlio: ua makaʻu ʻo ia no ka neʻe ʻana a ua kaumaha ʻo ia. E komo a hāʻawi i kāu wahi liʻiliʻi i manawa.
• E kamaʻilio pū me nā keiki i nā lula no ka mālama a mālama ʻana i ka ʻīlio. E hoʻomanawanui: pono ʻoe e hana hou i kēia mau lula ma mua o ke aʻo ʻana o nā keiki. E wehewehe hoʻomanawanui e ʻai wale nā ​​ʻīlio i kā lākou ʻai ponoʻī a ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hānai iā lākou i kāu ice cream a i ʻole meaʻai mai ka papaʻaina. Inā makemake maoli ke keiki e mālama i ka ʻīlio me kahi mea ʻono, hiki iā ia ke lawe i kahi hana kūikawā.

Hiki iā ʻoe ke hele i nā papa hana mālama holoholona a nānā i nā webinars me ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa. Ma ka Pūnaewele hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa nā wikiō hoʻonaʻauao a me nā papahana e pili ana i nā keiki. E kōkua i ka pēpē e noʻonoʻo i ka mea maikaʻi a me ka mea ʻino no ka pipi, pehea e hana ai me ia. He mea hoihoi loa kēia a pau - a hiki ke hoʻokokoke loa iā ʻoe! Pōmaikaʻi iā ʻoe