Pāʻani palekana no ke keiki me ka pōpoki

ʻAʻole like nā pōpoki a me nā keiki he kāne kūpono loa. Akā hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo i kāu mau keiki pehea e hana ai me ka pōpoki a kōkua iā lākou e hoʻopaʻa me kā lākou hoa huluhulu. ʻOiai makemake nā pōpoki a pau e noho kaʻawale i kēlā me kēia manawa (a ʻoi aku ka nui o kekahi ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe), makemake nui lākou i ka pāʻani. I mea e leʻaleʻa ai ka pāʻani no kāu pipi a me kāu mau keiki liʻiliʻi, e hoʻomaka i ka lā hoʻokahi ma ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i ka manawa no ka pāʻani hui a me ka manawa pāʻani pākahi no nā keiki a me ka pōpoki. Inā loaʻa i kēlā me kēia o lākou ka manawa e pāʻani ai me ʻoe a me kēlā me kēia, hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kahi noho maluhia no kēlā me kēia.

ʻAʻole pono e kūʻē nā hana me nā huaʻōlelo

He mea nui ka pāʻani ʻana me ka pōpoki no ka mālama ʻana i kona olakino. Eia naʻe, inā he mau keiki liʻiliʻi kāu, hiki ke paʻakikī iki kēia hana. ʻO ka mea mua, pono ʻoe e hōʻike i nā keiki ma ka laʻana pehea e mālama pono ai i ka holoholona i ka wā o ka pāʻani. Hoʻohālike nā keiki i ka hana, maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole, no laila e hoʻāʻo e hōʻike i ka hoʻopā mālie a me ka ʻoluʻolu a palekana. E kōkua i kāu poʻe liʻiliʻi e hoʻokō i kēia mau ʻano maikaʻi ma ka hoʻomanaʻo ʻana i ka uku ʻana iā lāua a me kāu pōpoki i ka wā o kā lākou launa mālie.

I kahi honua maikaʻi, hele mālie nā mea a pau, akā i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole kēia ka hihia. Hiki i nā holoholona ke huhū a huhū ke hoʻonāukiuki. E nānā i ka ʻōlelo kino o kāu pipi: hiki iā ia ke haʻi iā ʻoe ua huhū ka pōpoki, ʻoiai ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana e ʻakaʻaka a kiki paha. Hoʻopuka pinepine ʻia nā pepeiao o ka pōpoki i mua i ka wā mālie a mākaukau paha e pāʻani, akā inā palahalaha a huli hope paha kona mau pepeiao, ʻoliʻoli loa a makaʻu paha. Inā kū kona lauoho (ʻoi loa ma kona huelo) a i ʻole e hoʻopaʻa i kona huelo ma lalo ona, ʻo ia paha ka manawa e neʻe aku ai a waiho iā ia no kekahi manawa. Inā ʻike ʻoe ua loli ka ʻōlelo kino o kāu pōpoki, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi inā hele nā ​​kānaka a pau i kahi ʻē, inā hiki i kahi hiki ʻole ke ʻike ʻia ka pōpoki. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo e hoʻohuli i kāu mau keiki me nā hana ʻē aʻe. Hāʻawi i kāu pōpoki i kekahi manawa a e hoʻāʻo e pāʻani hou me ia ma mua o ka hoʻopā ʻana i nā keiki iā ia.

Eia kekahi, makemake pinepine nā keiki e hopu i nā holoholona a kauo a puni. He mau mea kūʻokoʻa kūʻokoʻa nā pōpoki a ʻaʻole makemake i ka lawe ʻia ʻana i hope a i ʻole, no laila e ʻoluʻolu i kāu pōpoki ke ʻae ʻoe i kāu keiki e kiʻi iā ia. Inā ʻūlū ʻo ia a ʻaʻaʻa, leʻaleʻa paha ʻo ia i ka pilina pili loa, akā inā ʻo ia e hoʻāʻo e hoʻokuʻu iā ia iho, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e hoʻokuʻu iā ia.

Inā ʻike ʻoe i ka wā o ka pāʻani e ʻoi aku ka pilikia o ka pōpoki ma mua o ka leʻaleʻa, e nānā iā ia. Malia paha ʻoi aku kona maʻalahi i nā pāʻani i kekahi mau manawa o ka lā. Eia kekahi, hoʻonohonoho maikaʻi ʻia nā pāʻani ke hoʻomaha maikaʻi nā keiki a ʻai ʻia. ʻAʻole nā ​​keiki pōloli a luhi nā hoa pāʻani no nā holoholona a me nā kānaka!

E hana i kahi paʻa e mau ai nā ola ʻeiwa

ʻAʻole hiki ke launa pū me kekahi holoholona i ka pō. E hoʻomaka i kahi liʻiliʻi: e hoʻonoho i kāu mau keiki a puni a hānai i ka pōpoki no kekahi mau minuke ma mua. Ke neʻe ʻoe i ka pāʻani ikaika, e koho i kahi e waiho ana i kahi mamao ma waena o nā keiki a me ka holoholona i pale ʻole i nā ʻōpala. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana, no ka laʻana, nā lāʻau lōʻihi a me nā pōpō nui. E ho'āʻo e pale i nā mea pāʻani liʻiliʻi i hiki i nā pēpē ke hoʻokomo maʻalahi i ko lākou waha. ʻO kekahi mea pāʻani maikaʻi ʻole a makemake ʻia e nā pōpoki a me nā keiki he pahu pahu maʻalahi. Hāʻawi i ka pipi i ka manawa e piʻi ai i loko o ka pahu iā ia iho - ma mua o kou manawa e nānā ai i hope, e pāʻani nā keiki a me ka pōpoki i ka peʻe a me ka leʻaleʻa. No ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i nā hoaaloha, e nānā i kāu mau keiki a me kāu pōpoki i ka wā e pāʻani ai lākou a uku iā lākou ke hana maikaʻi lākou.

Ma ke alakaʻi ʻana ma ke ʻano hoʻohālike a me ke ahonui, hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻoia i ka mālama maikaʻi ʻana o kāu mau keiki i ka pōpoki i ka wā pāʻani a ʻaʻole e hōʻeha iā ia. Ma hope o ka manawa, makemake paha ʻo ia e pāʻani me kāu mau pēpē iā ia iho. He mea kupaianaha ka launa ʻana ma waena o nā pōpoki a me nā keiki, no laila e hauʻoli i kēlā me kēia minuke!