Makaʻu kaʻu ʻīlio i nā kāne: he aha ka mea e hana ai

Inā lulu ka ʻīlio a kuʻi paha i mua o nā kāne, mai hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ka manaʻo - hiki pinepine kēia ʻano. I kekahi manawa makaʻu nā ʻīlio i nā kāne. Aia nā kumu no kēia, a ua ʻike ka poʻe akamai i ka hoʻoponopono a hoʻololi i ka holoholona.

Makaʻu ka ʻīlio i nā kāne: no ke aha

ʻAʻole maopopo loa ke kumu o ka makaʻu i nā kāne he nui nā ʻīlio. ʻO nā kumu kūpono paha e hōʻoluʻolu ai ka ʻīlio i loko o ka hui kāne penei:

ʻIke i hala

ʻAʻole hilinaʻi ka holoholona i nā kāne ma muli o ka hana ʻino i hala. Eia naʻe, e like me kā The Spruce Pets i kākau ai, ʻo ka pinepine ʻaʻole kēia ka hihia. ʻO ke kumu ʻē aʻe ʻo ia ka makemake o nā ʻīlio e hoʻonui ma muli o nā ʻike maikaʻi ʻole, e like me ka Cesar's Way. ʻO ka hihia hoʻokahi i ka wā i makaʻu ai ka ʻīlio i ke kāne i ka wā ma mua, hiki iā ia ke hoʻoulu i ka makaʻu i nā ʻelele a pau o ka wahine ikaika.

Ka nele o ka launa ʻana

ʻAʻole paha i hui pū ʻia kekahi mau holoholona ma ke ʻano he ʻīlio. Wahi a I Heart Dogs, he mea koʻikoʻi ka makahiki o 7 pule a 4 mahina no nā ʻīlio. ʻAʻole ia he mea kupanaha inā hoʻomohala kahi ʻīlio makua i kahi phobia e pili ana i kahi mea āna i hālāwai ʻole ai i kēia wā. Hiki i ka ʻīlio a ke kanaka ke hoʻoulu i ka makaʻu i nā kāne ʻē aʻe inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia i hālāwai me ka nui o nā ʻelele ʻē aʻe o ka wahine ikaika.

ʻOi aku ka weliweli o nā kāne

Me ko lākou nui nui a me ka leo hohonu, ʻoi aku ka weliweli o nā kāne i nā ʻīlio ma mua o nā wahine a me nā keiki. Hiki iā lākou ke ʻōlelo leo nui a hoʻohana pinepine i nā hana ʻoi aku ka ikaika, hiki ke hoʻoweliweli i kekahi mau ʻīlio.

honi

Wahi a Cesar's Way, pili paha ka ʻala o nā hormones kāne. He honi ko ka ʻīlio, a he mea hoʻoweliweli ka ʻala o ke kanaka. ʻO ka ʻala o ka wahine, ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, hiki ke hoʻomanaʻo iā lākou i ke ʻala o ko lākou makuahine nāna i hānai iā lākou, ʻo ia ka mea ma nā ʻīlio e pili pū me ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ka palekana.

Nā kāne me kekahi mau ʻano

ʻAʻole makaʻu ka ʻīlio i nā kāne a pau, akā me kekahi mau ʻano. Malia paha makaʻu maoli ka ʻīlio i nā kāne ʻumiʻumi, nā kāne kiʻekiʻe, nā kāne ʻaʻahu ʻaʻahu, nā kāne me nā pāpale, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe.

ʻO nā ʻīlio me ka hoʻomohala ʻana i ka manaʻo nona

Hōʻike pinepine nā hoaaloha ʻehā i ka manaʻo hoʻopaʻa i kekahi poʻe, ʻoiai inā ʻo ka mea hoʻokipa wale nō ka mea i loko o ka hale. E ʻimi paha ka ʻīlio e pale ikaika iā ia. Hiki i nā holoholona ke hōʻike i ka manaʻo lili, no laila hiki i ka ʻīlio ke hana aloha ʻole i ke kāne i loaʻa ka manaʻo a aloha paha o ka haku wahine.

Pehea e kōkua ai i kāu ʻīlio e ʻae i nā kāne

Inā hana ʻino ka ʻīlio i nā kāne, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka ʻimi ʻana i ke kōkua o ka mea hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻoihana a i ʻole ka mea psychologist holoholona e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻoponopono i ia mau pilikia me ka palekana. No ka pale ʻana i ka ʻīlio mai ka nahu ʻana i kekahi, pono ke mālama ʻia ma ke kaula ke hele i waho me ia. ʻOiai inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia i nahu ʻia, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana ma muli o ka makaʻu.

Inā ʻaʻole huhū ka ʻīlio, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohaʻahaʻa i kona naʻau ma ke kāhea ʻana i nā hoaaloha kāne no ke kōkua a hana i kēia:

• E kono i kahi kanaka e kipa, e hoʻokomo iā ia me kahi ʻīlio i loko o ka lumi hoʻokahi. ʻAʻole pono ʻo ia e launa maka me ia a i ʻole e ʻae i kona hele ʻana.
• Pono ka mea nāna e hoʻolei i ka ʻīlio i mea e hele ai ʻo ia ma mua o ke kāne ke holo ʻo ia ma hope ona.
• Ke hoʻokokoke ka ʻīlio i ke kanaka, e hoʻopaʻa iā ia i ka meaʻai. Ma waho aʻe o kēia hana, pono ʻo ia e noho mālie, hāmau a haʻalele i ka nānā ʻana o ka holoholona.
• Pono ʻoe e hoʻomaikaʻi i ka ʻīlio a hāʻawi manawaleʻa iā ia inā hana mālie ʻo ia i mua o ke kanaka i mea e hana ai i nā hui maikaʻi.
• Hiki i ke kanaka ke hoʻomaka e kamaʻilio me ka ʻīlio, e neʻe mālie i nā pāʻani a kamaʻilio pū me ia.
• ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kāne ma ka mokulele hoʻokahi me ka ʻīlio i ʻike ʻole ʻia ka nui a i ʻole ka hoʻoweliweli i kona wā e kukuli ai e hānai iā ia.

Mai wikiwiki. Inā makaʻu ka ʻīlio, mai hoʻoikaika ʻoe iā ia a hoʻoikaika iā ia e kamaʻāina. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolauna haʻahaʻa iā ia i nā kāne ʻokoʻa a hiki i ka ʻoliʻoli ʻana o ka ʻīlio me lākou ma ka laulā.

Inā inaina a makaʻu paha kāu ʻīlio i nā kāne, mai hopohopo. ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka lanakila ʻana i ka phobias i loko o nā holoholona, ​​​​akā, inā lawe ka mea nona ka manawa a hōʻike i ke ahonui, ʻike ka hapa nui o nā ʻīlio ʻaʻohe mea e makaʻu ai.