Pehea e ho'ōki ai i ka hana ʻino o kāu ʻīlio

Mai ʻae i kāu ʻīlio e lilo i ʻīlio huhū

Manaʻo ka poʻe he nui nā ʻīlio no ka mea "ua hana ʻia lākou no ia." Akā, ʻaʻole lilo ka ʻīlio i mea ʻino me ke kumu ʻole. Hōʻike ka hapa nui o nā ʻīlio i nā hōʻailona o ka huhū ke pilikia lākou. No laila, i mea e pale aku ai i kāu ʻīlio mai ka ulu ʻana i ka huhū a i ʻole ka huhū, e pale i nā kūlana koʻikoʻi a i ʻole ke aʻo ʻana i kāu pipi e hoʻomanawanui iā lākou. Pono ʻoe e ʻike i nā hōʻailona o ka makaʻu i kāu ʻīlio i ka wā, no ka laʻana, peʻe ʻo ia ma kahi kihi a huki paha i ke kaula.

He mea maʻamau ka makaʻu

ʻAʻole pono e loaʻa i kahi ʻīlio kahi ʻike maikaʻi ʻole e makaʻu ai. Hoʻoweliweli ʻia nā ʻīlio inā ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke launa pū me nā kānaka. Inā maʻa kāu ʻīlio i ka ʻike ʻana i nā poʻe (nā mākua a me nā keiki) he kumu leʻaleʻa, hoʻomaikaʻi a mālama ʻia, ʻaʻole lākou e lilo i mea hoʻoweliweli iā ia.

Pono ʻoe e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i kāu ʻīlio i nā kani a me nā kūlana e makaʻu ai iā ia i kona wā liʻiliʻi, a pēlā e kōkua ai iā ia e lanakila i kēlā mau makaʻu. A laila, lilo nā mea weliweli e like me ka mea hoʻomaʻemaʻe hoʻomaʻemaʻe, nā kaʻa, a i ʻole ka mea leka uila i ʻāpana o ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā.

ʻO kāu ʻīlio a me nā kānaka ʻē aʻe

Hele mai nā kānaka i nā ʻano like ʻole—nā hoaaloha, ʻohana, a me nā malihini—no nā makahiki like ʻole, ke kūkulu ʻana, a me ka nui-he maʻalahi i kāu ʻīlio ke huikau. Pono kāu ʻīlio e aʻo iā lākou a pau, a ʻoi aku ka wikiwiki. A laila, ʻaʻole ʻike ʻia ka poʻe i ʻike ʻole ʻia, a e aʻo koke ka ʻīlio e ʻoi aku ka mālie a hilinaʻi. E hōʻoia wale ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻoweliweli iā ia me ko lākou nānā pono.

He mea nui ka ʻike ʻana o kāu ʻīlio i nā keiki. Hiki i nā keiki liʻiliʻi ke pale aku i ka ʻai ʻana a me ka pāʻani ʻana me ka ʻīlio, a ʻaʻole lākou makemake e hōʻeha iā ia, akā hiki ke hoʻohauʻoli i ka ʻīlio. No ka laʻana, hiki iā ʻoe ke lawe i kāu ʻīlio e hele wāwae kokoke i ke kula. ʻAʻole pono nā keiki e hoʻohuli - e hauʻoli lākou iā lākou iho e hana me kāu pipi. Mai poina i ka luhi wikiwiki ʻana o nā ʻīlio, no laila e hōʻoia e pōkole nā ​​hālāwai me nā malihini a hāʻawi i kāu ʻīlio i ka manawa e hoʻomaha ai.

Mai ʻae i kāu ʻīlio e nahu i ka wā e pāʻani ana.

Ma mua o kou lawe ʻana i kāu ʻīlio i ka home, ua pāʻani ʻo ia me kona mau kaikunāne a ʻo ka nahu ʻana he ʻāpana kūlohelohe ia o kāna pāʻani. I loko o ka hale hou, e hoʻomau ʻo ia i ka nahu, no laila pono ʻoe e aʻo i nā ala e kōkua ai i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i ke ʻano o ka ʻīlio. ʻO ka mea nui e hoʻohuli i ka manaʻo o ke pēpē mai kou mau lima a hoʻololi i nā mea pāʻani.

I kēlā me kēia manawa āu e pāʻani ai me kāu ʻīlio, e hāliʻi a paʻi iā ia, hiki mai ka manawa e makemake ai ʻo ia e ʻono i kou lima. No laila e hoʻomākaukau mau i kekahi o kāna mau mea pāʻani. E hana paʻakikī iā ia ke nahu i kou lima (e like me ka puʻu ʻana i ka lima) a hāʻawi aku i kahi pāʻani ma ka hoʻoluli ʻana i mua o kona ihu. E ʻike koke ana kāu ʻīlio he ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi a ʻoi aku ka leʻaleʻa e pāʻani me kahi mea pāʻani ma mua o kou lima.

ʻIke wale kāu ʻīlio i kāu mea i aʻo ai iā ia.

He mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo ʻo nā mea a pau āu e aʻo ai i kāu ʻīlio i kēia manawa e lilo ia i ʻāpana o kāna ʻano maʻamau i ka wā e hiki mai ana. No laila ke pāʻani ʻoe me kāu ʻīlio, e hoʻāʻo e noʻonoʻo iā ia ma ke ʻano he ʻīlio makua a loiloi inā ʻae ʻia kāna ʻano a ʻaʻole paha. Inā i ka wā o ka pāʻani, hoʻomaka ʻo ia e uwē, hoʻāʻo e nahu i ka lima e paʻa ana i ka pāʻani, a i ʻole alualu i ke keiki, hoʻōki koke i ka pāʻani a haʻalele, lawe i ka pāʻani. E hoʻomaopopo koke ʻo ia i ke kumu o ka pau ʻana o ka leʻaleʻa a ma kēia hope aku e pale aku i ka ʻano i hoʻokumu ʻia ai ka hopena.

Inā he hopohopo kāu e pili ana i ka ʻano o kāu ʻīlio a makemake ʻoe i ʻike hou aʻe e pili ana i ke kumuhana, nā papa a me nā kula hoʻomaʻamaʻa, e kelepona i kāu kauka holoholona - e hauʻoli ʻo ia e kōkua iā ʻoe.