keiki a me ka ilio

ʻAʻohe mea kupanaha no ka nui o nā kānalua ma mua o ka ʻae ʻana. ʻO ka'īlio i loko o ka hale he hulu hipa ma nā wahi a pau, pono e hele i nā manawa he nui i ka lā, pinepine i nā mea hanaʻino. ʻO ka'īlio he lālā hou o kaʻohana, pono e hāʻawi nuiʻia ka nānā a me ka hoʻonaʻauao. E hoʻomākaukau no ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e hāʻule ka hapa nui o nā kuleana iā ʻoe, no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻike ke keiki i ka pono o kekahi o lākou a ʻaʻole hiki ke mālama kino. Inā ua ʻoluʻolu ʻoe i kēia, no ke aha e ʻoluʻolu ʻole ai i kāu keiki? He hopena maikaʻi ko ka ʻīlio i ke keiki. Ua hōʻoia nā psychologists e hoʻemi nā holoholona i ka huhū o nā keiki, a aʻo pū i ke kuleana.

ʻO ka mea maʻamau ka noʻonoʻo ʻana o nā mākua i ka makahiki o ke keiki i hiki ke mālama pono i ka holoholona. ʻAʻohe pane āpau. Ma ke kānāwai, ʻae ʻia ka hele wāwae ʻīlio kūʻokoʻa mai ka makahiki 14 a i ʻole 18 (ma muli o ka ʻano o ka ʻīlio). Eia nō naʻe, ʻo ka hānai ʻana, ka pāʻani, ke aʻo ʻana a me ke aʻo ʻana, ʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki ke hana ma mua. He mea koʻikoʻi ke kuleana o kāu keiki, pehea kona ʻike holoholona. ʻAʻole kēlā me kēia holoholona he mea pāʻani hiki ke hoʻouna mau ʻia i ka papa. Pono ka holoholona i ka mālama a me ka nānā ʻana i kēlā me kēia lā.

ʻAʻole pono e loaʻa koke ka loaʻa ʻana o ka ʻīlio, ma hope o ka noi mua. Pono ʻoe e hoʻomākaukau iā ʻoe iho a kamaʻilio koʻikoʻi me ke keiki. I mea e leʻaleʻa a maʻalahi kēia kaʻina hana, hiki iā ʻoe ke heluhelu pū e pili ana i nā ʻano ʻīlio like ʻole, ka mālama ʻana iā lākou, a me nā hiʻohiʻona o ka psychology. E wehewehe i ke keiki he nui ka manawa a me ka hana e hoʻohuli i kahi puʻupuʻu liʻiliʻi i "Volta" a i ʻole "Pluto" maoli.

Inā ua hoʻoholo mua ʻoe, e kaupaona ana i nā pono a me nā pōʻino, a laila ua neʻe paha ʻoe i ke koho ʻana i kahi ʻano. He nīnau koʻikoʻi kēia. Hoʻoholo ka ʻīlio o ka ʻīlio i kāna hana a me kāna ʻano, pono e kūpono i ka makahiki a me ke ʻano o ke keiki. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e kiʻi i kahi hoa e ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o kāna haku liʻiliʻi. ʻOi aku ka wikiwiki o nā ʻīlio ma mua o nā kānaka, no laila i loko o kekahi mau makahiki e pono paha ʻoe e kau i ka palekana ma ka papa kuhikuhi. Hiki i ka ʻīlio nui ke hōʻeha koʻikoʻi i ke keiki i ka wā e pāʻani ana. 

Akā ʻaʻole pono kekahi e hele i kahi ʻē aʻe: ʻaʻole hiki i kahi ʻīlio liʻiliʻi ke pale aku i kahi keiki i ʻike ʻole i ka mālama pono ʻana i nā holoholona. ʻAʻole ʻōlelo ʻia e kūʻai i nā ʻīlio kūikawā, e like me nā ʻīlio hahai holoholona. Pono lākou i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa kūpono a me nā hana, me ko lākou nele, ua hoʻokumu ʻia ka ʻoi aku o ka ikehu, a lilo ia i mea huhū. ʻAʻole hiki i nā lua i ka sofa ke kōkua i ka hānai ʻana i ke keiki a me ke ʻano maikaʻi. E hoʻolohe i nā mea hoʻonaninani, nā haʻuki a me nā ʻano lawelawe.

Inā hiki, pono ke koho ʻana i kahi Labrador a me kahi Golden Retriever: he mau mea aloha, aloha a kūpaʻa. He hoaaloha loa ʻo Collies a maʻalahi hoʻi i ka hana ma nā pāʻani, hoʻolohe a akamai. He maikaʻi ʻo St. Bernard a me Newfoundland no nā keiki ʻōpio, no ka mea he nui loa lākou, ʻoiai ua hoʻomanawanui lākou. He akamai a aʻo koke nā kahu hipa German. He ʻīlio maikaʻi ka Airedale Terrier, maʻalahi me nā keiki, ʻaʻole palaualelo. ʻO ka Dalmatian kahi hiʻohiʻona kupaianaha a me ka luhi ʻole. E leʻaleʻa nā ʻōpio ikaika me kahi mea hoʻonohonoho pili. Pono nā Schnauzers i ka mālama hoʻonui, akā aloha lākou i nā keiki. Ua hōʻike ʻia ʻo West Highland White Terrier he ʻīlio maikaʻi a kaulike.

ʻO nā puʻupuʻu liʻiliʻi he ikaika a maʻalahi, akā ma ke ʻano wale nō ʻoe e nānā pono i ka hoʻonaʻauao. He maikaʻi loa nā Bassets, akā ʻaʻole kūpono i nā keiki liʻiliʻi. He liʻiliʻi nā pugs, akā aloha a launa koke me nā holoholona ʻē aʻe.

ʻAʻole koʻikoʻi ka koho ʻana o ka pua. ʻO kēlā me kēia ʻīlio, ʻo kahi mongrel, i loaʻa i ka nui o ke aloha a me ka mahanahana, e pane like iā ʻoe. ʻO ka mea nui e mālama pono i ka holoholona a hauʻoli pū me kāu keiki.